{"id":26623,"date":"2024-02-26T08:05:05","date_gmt":"2024-02-26T08:05:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/exciting-knuth.178-32-140-152.plesk.page\/?p=26623"},"modified":"2024-02-26T08:05:27","modified_gmt":"2024-02-26T08:05:27","slug":"the-pleasure-of-loving-god-like-st-francis-de-sales","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.donbosco.press\/en\/our-saints\/the-pleasure-of-loving-god-like-st-francis-de-sales\/","title":{"rendered":"The pleasure of loving God like St Francis de Sales"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

            In his famous Treatise on the Love of God<\/em>, St Francis de Sales wanted to present his reader with a summary of his entire doctrine in twelve points. Like Jesus, who practised twelve \u201cacts of love\u201d, he wants to encourage us to practise the following acts in our turn: complacency, benevolence and union; humility, ecstasy and admiration; contemplation, rest and tenderness; jealousy, sickness and the death of love. In speaking of acts of love, he by no means downplays the role of feelings, but proposes the practical exercises that true love requires. It is not surprising that the author of this treatise was proclaimed to be the \u201cdoctor of love\u201d.

The pleasure of the human heart<\/strong>
<\/strong><\/strong>            The first act of love for God \u2013 but this also applies to love of neighbour \u2013 is to practise \u201ccomplacency\u201d, that is, to seek and find pleasure with him and in him. There is no love without pleasure, as they say. To illustrate this truth, St Francis de Sales offers the example of the bee: \u201cAnd as the bee being born in honey, feeds on honey, and only flies for honey, so love is born of complacency, maintained by complacency, and tends to complacency.\u201d This is true of human love, but it is also true of divine love.
            When Francis was a young student in Paris, he had sought and found this pleasure in the love story told in that marvellous book of the Bible called the Canticle of Canticles, or Song of Songs, to the point of exclaiming in a transport of joy: \u201cI have found Him whom my heart loves, and I shall never leave Him!\u201d
            Pleasure moves our hearts in the direction of a beauty that attracts us, of a goodness that delights us, of a kindness that makes us happy. As in human love, pleasure is the great motor of God’s love. The beloved of the Canticle of Canticles loves her beloved because his sight, his presence, all his qualities bring her great happiness.
            Meditating on the Canticle of Canticles, the doctor of love did not want to dwell on the carnal pleasures described therein. Not that they are bad in themselves, for it is the Creator who has ordained them in his wisdom, but in certain cases they can give rise to wrong behaviour. Hence this warning, \u201cThe one who does not know how to spiritualise them well will only enjoy them in wrongdoing.\u201d
            In order to avoid any difficulties, Francis de Sales often prefers to describe the child’s pleasure at his mother’s breast: \u201cThe bosom and breasts of the mother are the storeroom of the little infant’s treasures: he has no other riches than those, which are more precious unto him than gold or the topaz, more beloved than all the rest of the world.\u201d
            With these considerations on human love, St Francis de Sales wants to introduce us to the love of God. We know by faith that \u201cthe Divinity is an incomprehensible abyss of all perfection, sovereignly infinite in excellence and infinitely sovereign in goodness.\u201d If, therefore, we carefully consider the immensity of the perfections that are in God, it is impossible for us not to experience great pleasure. It is this pleasure that makes the beloved of the Canticle say: \u201cHow beautiful you are, my love, how very beautiful You are all desirable, indeed you are desire itself!\u201d

God’s pleasure<\/strong>
<\/strong><\/strong>            The most beautiful thing is that in divine love, pleasure is reciprocal, which is not always the case in human love. On the one hand, the human soul receives pleasure in discovering all God’s perfections; on the other hand, God rejoices in seeing the pleasure He gives it. In this way, these mutual pleasures ‘make love of incomparable delight’. Thus the soul can cry out: \u201cO my king how lovable are thy riches and how rich thy loves! Oh! which of us has more joy, thou that enjoyest it, or I who rejoice thereat!\u201d
            In the love duet between God and us, it is actually God who has more pleasure than we do. Francis de Sales states this explicitly: God has \u201cmore pleasure in giving his graces than we do in receiving them.\u201d Jesus loved us with a love of complacency because, as the Bible says, \u201cVerily his delights are to be with the children of men<\/em>.\u201d<\/em>
            God did not become man reluctantly, but willingly and joyfully, because he loved us from the beginning. Knowing this, and knowing that God himself is the source of our love, \u201cwe delight in God’s pleasure infinitely more than in our own.\u201d
            When we think of this mutual happiness, how can we not think of a meal shared with friends? It is this happiness that makes the Lord say in Revelation: \u201c<\/a>Listen! I am standing at the door, knocking; if you hear my voice and open the door, I will come in to you and eat with you, and you with me\u201d
            Another image, also found in the Canticle of Canticles, is that of the garden full of \u201capple trees of his delights\u201d. It is in this garden, the image of the human soul, that the divine Bridegroom comes to dwell with all his gifts. He comes there willingly, for he delights to be with the children of men whom he has made in his image and likeness. And in this garden it is he himself who has planted the loving delight we have in his goodness.
            Nothing expresses the mutual happiness of those who love each other better than the expression used by the bride in the Canticle to describe their mutual belonging: \u201cMy beloved is mine and I am his.\u201d In other words, she can also say: \u201cGod’s goodness is all mine since I enjoy his excellences, and I again am wholly his, seeing that his delights possess me.\u201d

An endless desire<\/strong>
<\/strong><\/strong>            Those who have already tasted God’s love will not cease to desire to taste it more and more, because \u201cwhile satiating ourselves we would still eat, as whilst eating we feel ourselves satisfied.\u201dThe angels who see God continue to desire him.
            Enjoyment is not diminished by desire, but perfected by it; desire is not stifled, but refined by enjoyment. The enjoyment of a good that always satisfies never withers, but is continually renewed and flourishes; it is always lovable and at the same time always desirable.
            It is said that there is a herb with extraordinary properties: whoever holds it in their mouth is never hungry or thirsty, so full is it, and yet it never makes one lose their appetite. Rest of heart does not consist in remaining still, but in needing nothing but God; it does not consist in not moving, but in having no impediment to move.
            The chameleon is said to live on air and wind; wherever it goes, it has something to eat. So why does it always go from one place to another? Not because it is looking for something to satisfy its hunger, but because it is always practising feeding on the air of time. He who desires God by possessing Him does not desire Him to seek Him, but to exercise the affection he enjoys.
            When we walk to a beautiful garden, we do not stop walking once we get there, but we take advantage of it to stroll and pass the time pleasantly.
            Let us therefore follow the exhortation of the Psalmist: \u201cSeek ye the Lord and be strengthened, seek his face evermore<\/em>.\u201d Let us always seek the one we love, says St Augustine; love seeks what it has found, not to have it, but to have it always.

Pleasure beyond suffering<\/strong>
<\/strong><\/strong>            Suffering is not contrary to pleasure. According to St Francis de Sales, Jesus took pleasure in suffering, because he loved his torments. At the height of his passion, he was content to die in pain for me. It was this pleasure that made him say on the cross:\u201dAll is accomplished.\u201d
            It will be the same for us if we share our sufferings with his. “The more our friend is dear to us,” says the doctor of love, “the more we enjoy sharing his joys and sorrows.” \u201cNow shall I die with joy,\u201d<\/em> said Jacob after seeing his son Joseph, whom he thought dead. It was the delight in Jesus’ passion that drew his stigmata to St Francis and St Catherine of Siena. Curiously, honey makes absinthe even more bitter, but the sweet scent of roses is sharpened by the proximity of sour garlic. Similarly, the compassion we feel for Jesus’ sufferings does not take away our delight in his love.
            St Francis de Sales wants to teach us both the suffering that comes from love and the love of suffering, loving compassion and sorrowful complacency, lovingly sorrowful ecstasy and sorrowfully loving ecstasy. When the great holy souls suffered the stigmata, they tasted the \u201cjoyous love of suffering for a beloved one\u201d who died on the cross. The love gave them such happiness that sharing in Jesus’ sufferings filled them with a sense of consolation and happiness.
            St Paul’s love for the life, passion and death of his Lord was so great that he derived extraordinary pleasure from it. We see this clearly when he says he wanted to glory in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ. Elsewhere he also says:\u201d’<\/a>it is no longer I who live, but it is Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.\u201d St Clare so delighted in the Saviour’s passion that she drew upon herself all the signs of his passion, her heart \u201cbeing made such as the things it loved.\u201d
            Everyone should know how much the Saviour longs to enter our souls through this love of sorrowful compassion. In the Canticle of Canticles, the beloved implores his beloved: “Open to me, my sister, my love, my dove, my perfect one; for my head is wet with dew, my locks with the drops of the night.\u201d This dew and these drops of the night are the afflictions and pains of his passion. The divine Lover, laden with the sorrows and sweats of his passion, also says to me: \u201cOpen then thy heart towards me as the pearl-mothers open their shells towards the sky, and I will shed upon thee the dew of my passion, which will be changed into pearls of consolation.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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